Transformation, strength & renewal

A dear friend of mine sent me this quote by Viktor Frankl:

“When the situation is good, enjoy it.

When the situation is bad, transform it.

When the situation cannot be transformed,

transform yourself.”

She said it reminded her of me.

❤️

It is accurate. Whenever I encounter difficult situations in life, I try to figure out a way to work through it. I like to solve problems and puzzles. But some people and situations, like impossible puzzles, cannot be worked out.

When situations become untenable, I have the capacity to walk away, brush off the dust and transform my life into an even better version.

I value, above all else, peace of mind.

To me it is the most valuable commodity I have.

My life, at this point in time, is the most peaceful and tranquil it has ever been.

I surround myself with kindred souls, people who do not bring stress or drama into my (or their own) life.

That’s not to say I am not supportive when someone is struggling with an aspect of their life. I’m always there for them. I’m there with a listening ear, a cup of tea or coffee and occasionally some useful advice. And if they do not seek my counsel, I can listen without judgement or censure and just let them talk themselves out.

However, I do not allow people to take advantage of me and I keep my boundaries strong and secure.

The peace and serenity in my life is beautiful and glorious and I could not be happier.

It has been hard won. There have been times in my life with some relationships and friendships whereby toxic people have tried to break down my boundaries and drain my energy with their negative, drama filled nonsense.

I have the capacity, even when dragged into the cesspit of someone’s chaos, of being able to maintain a level of distance – like a protective self-shield, that allows me to bear witness to the chaos and understand that it is not of my making.

I can and I will step away.

If someone is trying to destroy your peace of mind or make you feel less than, know that you are worth more than that.

You are a beautiful being full of light and joy. Surround yourself with people who value and cherish you.

Never let anyone pull you down into their vortex of negativity. Rise above it, remove the talons of despair that threaten to rip your skin. And rise, rise like the Phoenix from the ashes. The Phoenix represents transformation, strength, and renewal. You are all of that! I see you❤️

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