By 
I’m always wary of folk that hate animals!
I dated a guy one time who hated animals (I know, right?!? what was I thinking?) He was an overall creep as well! Took a minute to figure it out, but I did.
He used to mock me for having a dog. Literally, he actually said “what 50 year old gets a dog?” Saying I was “pathetic.”
The thing is I have had dogs and cats my whole life since childhood. The one he was referring to I got when I was 52, my other dog was getting a bit old and I felt having a puppy would cheer her up, which it did (eventually!) My older dog passed a few years later and I swear having a younger dog around gave her more energy and pep!
Being with someone who despised animals was horrible. It was an experience that taught me more about human nature than I ever wanted to know.
I’m an animal lover. My dog isn’t just a pet; they’re family. They greet me with wagging tails and endless affection after a long day, offering unconditional love and companionship. So when I started dating this guy, I was excited to introduce him to my furry friend. Little did I know, that introduction would reveal more about him than any conversation ever could.
At first, he seemed indifferent about my dog. I brushed it off, thinking maybe he just wasn’t used to animals. But then the mocking started. He’d make snide remarks about how “pathetic” it was to be so attached to a dog. He’d laugh at the idea of someone finding comfort and joy in an animal’s company, saying it was “childish” and “ridiculous.”
His cruelty didn’t stop there. He’d deliberately antagonize my dog, teasing them in ways that were anything but playful. The more I saw this side of him, the more unsettled I became. His actions weren’t just a sign of disliking animals; they were a window into his twisted, cruel nature.
It wasn’t just about him not liking dogs—it was about the complete lack of empathy and compassion he showed. How could someone be so cold and heartless to a creature that only wanted to give love? The more time I spent with him, the more I realized he was a creep in every sense of the word. His disdain for animals mirrored a broader disdain for kindness and decency.
I’m so grateful to no longer have this excuse for a human in my life. Looking back, I can see how his attitude towards my dog was a massive red flag—a warning of the nastiness that lurked beneath the surface.
Here’s the thing: Animals bring out our softer sides. They remind us of the importance of care, love, and responsibility. If someone can’t appreciate that, if they respond with cruelty instead of kindness, it says a lot about who they are as a person.
So, here’s my advice: Never trust a person who hates animals. If they can’t show empathy for a creature that only wants to love and be loved, how can they possibly show it to another human being? Surround yourself with people who share your love and compassion for all living beings—it’s one of the best ways to ensure that you’re with someone who truly has a good heart.
As for me, I’m happy to have my dog by my side, a loyal companion who, unlike that guy, knows the true meaning of unconditional love
My now older dog is 13 and yesterday I rescued a pup to keep him company in his twilight years.
My new pup is 7 months old and she is gorgeous – look at those eyes!
Her owner rejected her as she’d been bought to be a “show dog.” However, the pup has a little white fur on her chest and a tiny (genetic) kink in her tail, so she was disqualified at her first show.
That meant the owner didn’t want her anymore😢
This pup now has a warm and loving home with me! Her imperfections are cute as far as I’m concerned and she has settled beautifully into my home.
Even better, my current partner loves dogs and cats and is delighted with my little menagerie!💗
imagecredit:unkonfined
What do you think?
You must be logged in to post a comment.