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Riding the Waves of Treatment: My Journey with Aggressive Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma

Sometimes life throws you a curveball you never see coming. For me, that curveball hit in mid-November when blood tests revealed that my non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma had become aggressive, leading to serious issues with my liver and kidneys. The news was a lot to process: these vital organs were malfunctioning, and the cancer’s progression was deemed life-threatening.

I was admitted to the hospital immediately as a priority case. Within hours, I was on fluids, receiving anti-coagulant medications and steroids. My medical team told me I needed to start chemotherapy and immunotherapy within two days. The urgency was overwhelming, but I trusted the experts guiding me through this crisis. There wasn’t time to dwell on the fear; it was time to fight.

The Treatment Begins

Since then, I’ve undergone two cycles of chemo and immunotherapy, with four more to go. The treatments are intense, and the side effects have been challenging. One major change? All my hair has fallen out. Losing my hair was an emotional hurdle, but I’ve embraced the change. I’ve discovered the fun of wigs and turbans, and on early morning dog walks, I’ve been rocking the bald look. It’s surprisingly liberating.

Finding Strength in Support

Despite everything, I’m feeling better and incredibly optimistic. My haematologist’s confidence in my ability to go into remission after treatment has been a beacon of hope. Knowing that my hair will grow back is a small comfort in the grand scheme of things, but for now, I’m focusing on what truly matters: my health and the incredible people in my life.

I cannot overstate my gratitude for my stellar medical team. Their expertise and compassion have been extraordinary. I’m also endlessly thankful for my partner, my daughter, and my amazing friends who have rallied around me with love and care. They’ve brought meals, offered a listening ear, sat with me during chemo treatments, and reminded me every day that I’m not alone in this fight.

Staying Active and Positive

Even in the midst of treatment, I’ve made it a priority to stay as active as my body allows. I’ve scaled back my workouts at the gym, but I’m still moving, mostly yoga and light weights workouts. I walk, I dance, and I embrace every moment I can spend outdoors with my dogs. These activities help me feel more like myself and remind me of my strength.

Riding the Waves

This journey is undeniably tough, but it’s also shown me how resilient I can be. I’ve learned to take each day as it comes, riding the waves of treatment with hope and determination. There will be challenges ahead, but I’m confident that I can face them.

To anyone else navigating a similar path, know that you are stronger than you think. Surround yourself with a team—medical professionals, loved ones, and friends—who will lift you up. Take it one step at a time. And don’t forget to celebrate the small victories, because they add up.

Here’s to healing, to hope, and to the brighter days ahead. I’ll see you on the other side of remission.

my pink wig and party frock for our annual Christmas dance!

 

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Finding Strength and Joy: Visiting the oncology ward patients with my therapy dog

Life often takes us on unexpected paths, revealing both profound challenges and moments of incredible resilience. In this post, I share my journey of visiting patients at an Oncology ward with my therapy dog George. What makes this experience particularly poignant is the fact that I too am dealing with cancer on two fronts. Breast cancer and an unrelated non-Hodgkins Lymphoma in my abdominal region.

Together, George and I embarked on a visit to bring solace, hope, and unconditional love to those navigating their own cancer journeys.

A Shared Bond

George and I share an unbreakable bond. He has worked with people of all ages from toddlers through to the elderly and he instinctively knows how to be gentle and loving with everyone. He and I are united in our determination to make a positive impact on others facing all sorts of challenges in life.

Overcoming Obstacles

Visiting the Oncology ward with George is no easy feat, given that I too have cancer. However, the desire to bring comfort to cancer patients outweighs any obstacle in our path. Together, we navigated the corridors of the hospital, fuelled by a shared purpose to uplift spirits, and bring smiles to weary faces.

Despite the difficulties, George’s presence by my side offers a renewed sense of purpose and strength. Everybody was happy to see him and get all the pats – both staff and patients alike! Cuddles all round for everyone! So much happiness, joy and giant smiles!

Finding Empathy and Connection

As George and I entered the Oncology ward, the air was thick with emotions. The patients, each fighting their own battles, recognized a kindred spirit in our presence. The shared understanding of the challenges we face created an instant connection—a silent reassurance that they are not alone. Through George’s gentle interactions and my own empathetic conversations, we forged bonds that transcend words, offering solace and a camaraderie and a feeling of friendships made.

Moments of Healing

In the Oncology ward, the power of George’s therapy work is magnified by my personal understanding of cancer’s impact. We witnessed the transformative effect of his presence, as patients’ weary faces lit up with joy.

The simple act of petting George’s soft fur became a source of comfort and respite, momentarily transporting them away from the sterile hospital environment. In those moments, I also found solace and purpose, knowing that I am making a difference in someone else’s journey.

We shared our personal stories and journeys, noting many similarities and some stark differences. Men and women of all age groups were there. Every single person was excited to have time with George and for me to stop by for a chat and a laugh (and yes, we all still have a sense of humour!)

Reflection and Gratitude

As I reflect on our visit to the Oncology ward, I am filled with an overwhelming sense of gratitude. George’s gentle soul and unwavering love has not only touched the lives of patients but also provided me with strength and purpose on my own cancer journey. In the act of giving, we receive a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the healing power of love and companionship.

Visiting patients with George was a beautiful time of sharing our love. In spreading joy to those in need, George and I discovered a renewed strength and purpose. As we navigate the challenging terrain of cancer, we find solace in the connections we forge, the smiles we bring, and the hope we instill.

Together, we demonstrate that even in the face of adversity, love and compassion can prevail, lighting the way for brighter tomorrows.

a photo of two hands, one comforting the other

Main image credit:WaggingTailsPhotography

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